Success is determined by one thing: taking responsibility for
our life.
In sum, this is the internal locus of control.
It is staying within our sphere of influence. It is accepting and embracing the limitations of our
control. It is accepting that we can do
what we can do, that we should do what we can.
What I think, say, and do – all of it – is MY
responsibility. Nobody else can be
accountable for it.
Just the same, I’m not accountable for what another person thinks,
says, or does. That’s their choice. I cannot control what you think, say, or do, but you can.
When we stay within our control, we master the moment, and we
live our best life in the moment.
Does it simplify life too much to say that there is one main
goal and that this is it? I don’t think
so.
In too many respects, we make life more complicated than it
needs to be. If we truly want to succeed
in any endeavour in life, it is good to come back to this unchanging truth:
Be responsible for what we are responsible for.
The challenge is to live out of this paradigm to test its power. When we stay in this paradigm, we soon find the
cogency of its power. When we stay in this, we find the freedom of having been freed of needing to control what we cannot change and of accepting the control we have.
If we can see that this one thing leads to the successful life,
we redefine for ourselves what true success looks like — as a spiritual truth. Then we realise there’s nothing more powerful. This simple truth sets us free, and it is the key to gratitude, hope, joy, and peace.