FORGIVENESS, whenever we experience
it, is a very definite portion of God’s glory, in and through the mode of God’s
grace being extended.
Think of a time you received the undeserved favour of someone, where they
forgave you something you felt tremendous guilt or shame for, and think of that
feeling; being let off the hook. Sure, you were honest. You fell on your sword
(as Saul did in 1 Chronicles 10:4), so to speak. You held no defence for yourself.
The other party could see you totally vulnerable. Your honesty pleaded for
their mercy. And their mercy was given, as a gift of “be restored to me, my
brother or sister.”
When we’re truthful about mistakes
we’ve made, errors of judgment and the like, and we resist the fear of being
exposed, God often does something in the transaction of confession. Something
miraculous takes place. Our faith is buoyed in courage.
In simply
being honest about our mistakes, God’s glory, and not simply his grace, is made
available.
Honesty
makes it possible that we can be forgiven.
In being
forgiven, God’s glory, and not simply his grace, is made manifest.
God does so much with our honesty.
I was talking in the park with a fellow parent recently; a person who rehabilitates
people after serious injury. He talked about how sad it is when people aren’t
honest about what actually happened in vehicle accident. Sometimes people won’t
tell the truth for fear of financial loss. So, a thing that could easily be
sorted out — though it might cost them a little more financially — gets very
messy and the issue gets dragged through the courts. Not only that, but there
are warring parties. There are children in families who watch on and learn the
wrong way for dealing with conflict. There are also the protagonists who must
endure great stress which propagates fear and feeds the conflict. And, as the
conflict goes on, sometimes year after year, less and less life is lived by all
parties. Just because one or both parties weren’t honest. If the person in the
fault is able to be honest, even though they might lose out financially, they
gain integrity, for anyone can make a mistake. And what better result can an
unsatisfactory event produce than a restitution that everyone can bear?
As we bring honesty to the table,
relationship is built, and trust is enhanced, because justice proves bigger
than we are. Justice is big enough only for God.
Everybody is interested in an
easily observable justice. When we tell the truth and don’t hide behind our
shame God shows the other party that we deserve mercy and how to extend grace.
It’s easier for mercy to emanate from the person from whom forgiveness is
sought.
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God’s glory is magnified within
God’s grace. As someone extends that merciful grace in forgiveness, grace
compounds and it becomes glory — for both parties — for the honest person and
for the merciful person.
In forgiving and in
being forgiven, God’s grace is known between the two, and God’s glory is shown
for all to see.
© 2015 Steve Wickham.
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