THIS article is for the pastor.
Actually, to be frank, it’s for me. If you’re in a position like me — i.e. God
calls you a pastor — meaning you have a special shepherding ministry for others — you’ll possibly
recognise what such a sacrificial occupation requires of you, implicit of the
nature of the role. You exist for others. Pastoring is not a job, it’s a
lifestyle.
It was explained to me that when God
calls a person to no other calling but to pastor, that person has a terrible
calling on their life. Any other job would do. And if we could do any other
job, why would we pastor? But too much these days pastors are glamour boys or
superwomen — especially in our narcissistic social-media age. Truth is it’s a
loaded vocation, much like the Christian faith is.
Nobody tells new converts of the
spiritual warfare they willingly (yet unknowingly) enter. Life gets harder when
we live a true faith, not easier. It gets less comfortable when we commit to
growing, not more comfy. And for the pastor, as Dale Stephenson once said, they’re
not as good as some people say they are, just as they’re not as bad as others
make them out to be.
On the one hand ministry’s a
blessed privilege. On the other it’s a sure curse, at least from our carnality’s
perspective.
The pastor is a target — the enemy
will get his clutches on us, alright! But ever more the pastor is also God’s
man or woman. And they daren’t forget how intrinsic is their protection. God
has promised to never leave nor forsake any of us; how much more will the Lord
bless the obedience of his servant. But that very obedience may require of them
their life.
The Acronym – P.A.S.T.O.R.
Persisting Against Spiritual
Torment, Obeying Resolutely… the pastor is and does.
The pastor persists. Persistence is
required against spiritual torment, which can be part and parcel of their daily
going out and coming home. They obey resolutely. Perfection isn’t required but
resolve, overall, is. Resolve is about coming back to a commitment made and keeping that commitment.
Here he
goes and there she is,
The pastor
is at once sublime,
But equally
they fail,
Equally
they’ll struggle and let you down,
But their
job it is in humility to climb.
Humiliation
was made for the strong,
Mortification
was made for those
Who will be found to be wrong.
The Pastor is Strong, Because the Pastor
Can Be Wrong
Persisting against spiritual
torment, obeying resolutely; the pastor is humble enough to know they will be
wrong. The pastor is an exemplar of humanity; every person is fallible enough
to be wrong on a regular basis.
The pastor is ready to show
everyone they encounter how to be wrong with dignity. They have no fear for
exposure, because true exposure is only about the truth.
Any pastor who struggles to be
wrong when they’re wrong still has a character flaw unworthy of their calling.
A pastor is called to be wrong, good and well.
When a person admits they’re wrong
they facilitate reconciliation in conflict because justice is served when they,
a courageous person, are honest. How much better is it for a pastor — a church
leader — to promptly admit wrongdoing? And in all relational encounters it
takes two to tango — everyone has something they could have done better when
they’re honest. They’re an example of leadership for us all, for the best
leadership is a noble, trustworthy leadership.
Too many people fail a basic
relational test in not being able to be responsible for their contribution of
wrong. If a pastor shows they’ve mastered this key leadership competency they
facilitate forgiveness, reconciliation and remove barriers to healing.
The pastor obeys resolutely,
persisting against the ever-present spiritual torment that sets itself against
him or her. It requires them to be dignified in being wrong.
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Admission of contribution of wrongdoing
sets spiritual captives of bitterness free.
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Six P.A.S.T.O.R. Values
Perseverance – the resilience
of persistence in adversity is perseverance.
Accountable – pastors strive
to be accountable persons; self-disciplined to a fault.
Selfless – able to
think of others first, pastors try to bring the fullness of Philippians 2 to
bear over their entire lives.
Trustworthiness – it’s crucial a pastor can be found worthy of others’ trust.
Obedient – the juxtaposition
of trust is obedience. If a pastor only trusts and obeys they’re doing the Lord’s
will for their lives.
Righteous – justice and
righteousness mean essentially the same thing: the unequivocal commitment to God’s
truth, no matter the cost.
When a pastor fails any of these
endeavours they’re quick to confess and repent. And to God be the glory!
© 2015 Steve Wickham.
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