YOU know the
sort of day I’m referring to; one where there is an itch within you that just
cannot be scratched adequately or accurately enough.
Such a place of
the spirit creates a frustrated sense of anger within us because it seems
irreconcilable. There is generally good reason for such frustration. Something
has riled us, whether we know what it is or not.
The best remedy
for anger is honesty. And to enter into such a journey to unearth the fractious
truth in the landscape of the soul is to play with the notion that loneliness
is truly the main concern.
Loneliness is
the soul’s greatest nemesis. This is because the soul is defenceless against
attack, and, when it’s attacked, the only response possible is loneliness. This
is seen as the protective layers of a person’s ego — in this case, in their frustrated
anger — are stripped away.
If we entertain that
the anger correlates with indiscernible loneliness in the soul we can see two
things: 1) that a relational or situational disconnect has taken place creating
cognitive dissonance* which in turn creates such an attitudinal response of
anger that impacts behaviour, and 2) that the soul has been sold out to the
relational or situational disconnect, and is impacted, creating loneliness — an estrangement of the person with
themselves.
If we accept
this we have linked the injured soul with the situation of anger. The anger has
caused the soul to be injured, yet the situation creating cognitive dissonance
has caused the anger. This is all vital in understanding how to reconcile the
anger before it really does harm. We must attend to the injured soul.
Only honesty can
restore a soul divided by two opposing truths.
The restoration
of a soul is to bring wholeness in the presence of division.
***
God’s Spiritual
ministry is necessary in healing the injured soul and restoring it.
In the presence
of honesty — that a situation has taken place that hurt — the soul is restored,
because it is heard. This is why counselling often helps. The truth has been
heard. A person’s justice has been executed. They are vindicated, at least of
reasonable response to anger.
God’s Spiritual
ministry to a lonely soul affected by anger is predicated on a seedbed of
honesty. When we can be honest about what happened and we can justify the
attitudinal shift that leads to negative behaviour then the soul may finally
rest; it has been heard.
***
Anger can be
attributed to a frustrating situation that literally estranges a person’s soul
from justice, leading to a form of soul loneliness.
The biggest
tragedy on a human level is our soul’s separation from our truth. God is always
set on resolving such a dichotomy.
For a soul to be
restored and healed the soul must be heard.
© 2015 Steve
Wickham.
*Cognitive
dissonance is a mind divided and a heart wrestling in response.
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