FAMILY celebrations don’t always work out as we plan. Many end up with loved ones warring with each
other. New wounds are inflicted or old
ones are reopened. So much senseless grief
and pain. There is hardly a more salient
love than familial love — hurts more than it should, and we forgive more than
we should. Rightly or wrongly, all this came to me in a single moment’s vision.
Then another
vision: a family photograph of someone else’s
family. Like all photographs, a moment
is captured as if to fix that image as a solid reminder of history. The picture tells a thousand stories. But, simply this…
We’re all passing away.
The day comes soon when we’ll be gone, in deed.
Death. Do you think about
it much? Not in a morbid sense. In a historical sense. In a factual sense. It will occur you know. It’s only a matter of time. But what about now… what about the time
between now and death, where you have choice in how to act and respond? Through this lens, what changes can you now
commit to making?
***
Those family factions that occur, where birds of the same
feather flock together… these, too, are times that are passing away. Soon they’ll be gone, and history will be written,
forever, like the photograph, etched in
fact. The moment for writing will be
gone. It is thereby written. Done.
Why do we not instead choose to love? And where love is unrequited, as we should
expect rejection to come, however callous it feels to us, why do we react? It’s not the rejection that matters. All that matters is having little to regret. All that matters is having a firm grasp on
the facts of history as they’ll one day be told telling of how free we were to
love and hate. Do we ever stand apart
from ourselves, as if to judge ourselves from a third party’s viewpoint? We would do well to. What would we honestly say about ourselves?
***
I want you to think; to think as God has made me think… of the
regrets of family and friendship relationships that went awry. Where hurts were ushered harshly and responded
to with disdain. Oh, what a horrible
state of affairs!
We were made for more. Bearers
of the Creator’s image, we were made for more… to stop violence in its tracks;
to beget restraint for compulsion, sagacity for selfishness, peace for
violence.
A trillion images. That’s
one life. A life in the reality of
history written on earth. These trillion
images are indelibly written. They’re
eternal. What will we be satisfied to
write?
We write our history of life through indelible images
historically factual. Don’t regret later
what you can reconcile now.
© 2016 Steve Wickham.
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