“What is hell? I
maintain that it is the suffering of being unable to love.”
―
Fyodor Dostoyevsky
(1821-1881)
THIS IS NO eschatological (end times) article.
No, what we are dealing with is the sense of everyday heaven and everyday hell
– the sense of experiential heaven and experiential hell. It’s about the life
choices we make – those for life and those for death.
If we had the inability to love – which would
mean we wouldn’t experience compassion and gentleness and patience toward
others in any fervent amount or to any significant effect – then we would live
without the pulse of God’s Spirit throbbing through the veins to our hearts.
That would be a travesty. We wouldn’t simply miss the meaning of life, but we’d
miss the treasures of heaven, altogether. That is to say, we would miss God and
have no link, no experience, and no clue as to the Divine. We would our joy
come from? Or, for that matter, our hope?
If we were to get angry with those who have
an apparent lack in their grasp on love, we might miss our opportunity to see
what they are truly lacking – a grasp
on God, on life, on a real and living experience of heaven.
Loving Those In Their Chosen Reality of Hell
Why would we not quietly pity these instead
of secretly berating them? They, though they make life a misery for their
contemporaries, cannot receive what Christ came to give them. Their staunch
stubbornness is a grating nemesis against their very selves. It’s so silly, but
we must wonder how terribly shocking it must be to live their lives. Having
empathy for the dispassionate one protects our sense of compassion – that we
might viably be compassionate, patient and tolerant with the very persons who
seem to have none of such virtue.
Then we know the aspect of God’s grace that
has grown from seed to a fuller maturity in us: when we might pity the person
who hurts us, yes truly pity them, and in no sense of pride, either. It is love
that compels us to want more for them than they would receive for themselves.
Love pushes us to nurture compassion and
warmth and space for them.
***
We should pray for those in our lives who
cannot seem to love – who lack compassion, patience, kindness, tolerance, etc.
Those who have not been touched by love exist in life as if it were a living
hell. Our role is to keep loving; to keep nurturing hope that God would soften
their hearts into heaven.
© 2013 S. J. Wickham.
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